Private. Open-minded. Still consent-first.
Intensive Desires is designed for consensual adult dating and alternative-lifestyle relationships. It can help adults discover compatible interests, play together, communicate preferences, form bonded connections and maintain agreed remote interaction. None of those features creates consent by itself.
Core principles
- All participants must be adults 18+.
- Nearby discovery must be intentional. Do not use the app to covertly identify or track people.
- Consent must be voluntary, informed, specific and reversible.
- A bond is a mutually chosen app connection, not ownership of another person.
- A role such as dominant, submissive or switch describes an agreed dynamic, not permanent authority over another person.
- Device permissions, remote features and bonded access should be revocable.
- Haptic signals are communication tools, not proof of consent to sexual activity or any other action.
- Do not use the app to stalk, threaten, coerce, harass or secretly monitor someone.
Meeting someone new
Compatibility inside an app does not guarantee compatibility or safety in person. Consider meeting first in a public place, controlling your own transportation, telling a trusted person where you are going, and leaving if you no longer want to participate.
Games and exploration
Games, prompts and interest comparisons are intended to make communication easier and more enjoyable. A game result, shared interest or previous agreement does not replace an active yes in the real world.
Emergency situations
If you or another person is in immediate danger, contact local emergency services. Intensive Desires and this website are not emergency-response services.